I am a 54 year old single guy. I have used viagra, Cialis, & Levitra for years and they have worked pretty well until this last year.
For some reason when I am with a new partner I just cant get an erection even when using the drugs. When I am alone though the drugs work great and I have no problem getting an erection at all. I wake up at night with strong ones etc.
When I start dating someone I think about if my equipment is going to work or not constantly and it hasn’t been. I think it’s a mental thing happening, the more I think about it the less I am able to perform. The less I am able to perform the more I think about it.
How can I break out of this? It’s really putting a damper on my relationships.
Chosen Answer:
I believe if I was in your position I’d try some of that new Cialis that you take every day and when you start making out with your date engage in a lot of foreplay before you even think about trying penetration. Also you might want to have your testosterone checked. ED drugs will get it up but it take testosterone to give you the libido and arousal, i.e. to make you more horny. Your problem does sound more like anxiety than ED or testosterone though. If you can get hold of some Xanax or Valium it might help if taken right before you go out. I knew a guy who was hooked on Valium and he was a real stud in bed. That guy made me want to take some valium because he could c um 4 or 5 times and never lose his hard on. (I knew the girl he was banging & she told me) Another thing I would try is to cut down on the alcohol when you’re out on a date and try not to think about getting an erection, just let it happen naturally during foreplay. I think I would give the girl an orgasm orally first just to make sure in case it doesn’t come up but that would give me an erection. I don’t think that long copy and paste answer is going to help much but I can really empathize with you on this problem because it could be a hard one to get past but one you have to get past before it ruins your love life. Here’s wishing you the best of luck and I hope something works. Let me know how things work out for you. mobligator at gmail dot com I spelled out my email because I’m not sure yahoo allows addresses and I’m not a yahoo member, just a google member. 
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on: 24th December 11
